Empathy is my superpower in mediation. It fosters genuine connection with the parties and deepens my understanding of a dispute from all perspectives. With this foundation, parties trust me to help them evaluate their claims, assess risk, and find creative, value-driven solutions.”
Case Administrator
Practice Areas
- Business & Commercial Contracts
- Civil Rights
- Class Action
- Data Privacy
- Employment
- Healthcare
- Intellectual Property
- Mass Tort
- Sexual Assault Claims
- Shareholder Disputes
- Technology
Education
- Course Certificate, Stanford Law School Advanced IP/Tech Arbitration and Mediation (2023)
- American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution Arbitration Institute (2021, 2024)
- American Bar Association Advanced Mediation Skills Institute (2022,2025)
- Certificate, Power & Influence; Carlson School of Management Executive Education (2021)
- Certificate, Advanced Negotiation Master Class; Harvard University, Executive Education at PON (2015)
- Certificate, 30-hour mediation training; Community Mediation and Restorative Services (2013)
- J.D., Brigham Young University, J. Reuben Clark School of Law (2004-2006); University of California Los Angeles School of Law (2006 -2007)
- B.S., Business Administration, Concentration in Corporate Finance; University of Southern California (1999-2004)
- B.A., French, University of Southern California (1999-2004)
Biography
Experience
- Attorney, Arbitrator, Mediator, Vilendrer Law (2013-2024)
- Attorney, Bassford Remele, PA (2010-2013)
- Attorney, Schaffer, Lax, McNaughton & Chen (2010)
- Attorney, Ray & Gourde, LLP (2007-2009)
Professional Achievements and Memberships
- Vice Chair, American Bar Association’s Section of Dispute Resolution (2025-2026)
- Board Member, California Dispute Resolution Council (2025)
- Member, Silicon Valley Arbitration & Mediation Center (SVAMC) (2024-2025)
- Chair, Orange County Bar Association Legislative Resolutions Committee (2025)
- Co-Chair, Early Dispute Resolution Committee of American Bar Association’s Section of Dispute Resolution (2020-2024)
- Southern California Super Lawyer in ADR, Super Lawyers (2023-2025)
- Fellow, American Bar Foundation (2022-Present)
- SoCal Super Lawyers Rising Star, Super Lawyers (2016-2022)
- Semi-finalist, High-tech division of Minnesota Cup, nation’s largest statewide startup competition (2016)
- AV Preeminent® rating, Martindale-Hubbell (2015-Present)
- Attained best outcome in scored negotiation among 60 professional negotiators at Harvard Program on Negotiation (2015)
FOREIGN LANGUAGES
- French
- Persian
Press
- Workplace sexual abuse: Mediate with care
- 4 Trauma-Informed Strategies For Mediating Sex Abuse Cases
- The OCBA Legislative Resolutions Committee: OC Lawyers Influencing Policy, One Bill At A Time
- Update On Generative AI Litigation: A Future Hanging In The Balance
- The case for Early Dispute Resolution to fast-track justice
- The Sooner the Better
- Signature Resolution Welcomes Ellie K. Vilendrer to Panel of Neutrals